You can fall in love in different ways.
You can fall in lust so that inside is butterflies and your heart skipping a bit.
You can fall in love, so as in the fantabulous picture. – There were you, so smitten, with the same eye color, smiles that concur everyone, and the whole world stopped to admire you, their favourite love songs coming to mind.
You can fall in love as of melancholia. Because you want to run away and want to be extant and want to have something festively momentous.
You can fall in love as of boredom and for someone to love you – to appease your inner child. You can fall in love just of mere enervation or even out of despair, because the soul is torn and wants to fall apart but you do not know what else to do and so you fall in love. Whether because it is a sensation, or because you are relearning to breathe in this desirous loneliness mixed with longing, walking into the light after a lifetime of semi-shadows, in search of a transitory relish for the “hungry ghost” soul. Yes, it happens too.
You can fall in love also in a way that not to keep. To kiss the cheek parting and know that never more and good that so. Because it’s beautiful, because it’s not about you and not about them, and not about you two.
You can once fall in love, and then soon not love. And you can not love, and then one day fall in love…
Thinking about the dialogue. As being with someone is to conduct a far-reaching dialogue with them… Here no lips, legs, success, money, sexual skills would help. Many people for some reason agree to concessed modus vivendi dialogue… Maybe because they did not know a good dialogue in their life?!
© Elin Vidoff